My therapist told me that 3000kcal were too much for my body. Now that I'm on a healthy BMI anyway, I try to listen to my hunger cues and make sure it's ~2500.
But I'm still gaining on that amount, which ofc terrifies me. The new issue is, that my therapist wants me to maintain on my goal weight, I'm already over that by 1.5 kilos and still gaining... So She'll probably tell me to eat less and less until I stop gaining...
Ofc when I am honest to me and her I say that I don't want to gain anymore, BUT I also don't want to control my weight for the rest of my life. I don't want to fix myself on that weight and live in fear to go over it. I guess I just want to find my set point weight, but
1. I'm so afraid that I won't stop gaining and
2. I'm afraid that she thinks I will be fat because I eat too much and go over BMI XX...
I hope it's not triggering, I'm just so scared and on my highest weight since my ed (over 2.5 years) and argh...
But I'm still gaining on that amount, which ofc terrifies me. The new issue is, that my therapist wants me to maintain on my goal weight, I'm already over that by 1.5 kilos and still gaining... So She'll probably tell me to eat less and less until I stop gaining...
Ofc when I am honest to me and her I say that I don't want to gain anymore, BUT I also don't want to control my weight for the rest of my life. I don't want to fix myself on that weight and live in fear to go over it. I guess I just want to find my set point weight, but
1. I'm so afraid that I won't stop gaining and
2. I'm afraid that she thinks I will be fat because I eat too much and go over BMI XX...
I hope it's not triggering, I'm just so scared and on my highest weight since my ed (over 2.5 years) and argh...
Last edited by Amalie on Mon Nov 10, 2014 8:50 am; edited 1 time in total (Reason for editing : Edited away the bmi.)